Anlamak ve Keşfetmek İçin Bir Alan
Benzersiz Felsefeniz
& Yaşamanın Sanatını Yaratın

VAROLUŞUNUZ İÇİN BÜTÜNSEL VE SANATSAL BİR OYUN ALANI

VAROLUŞUNUZ İÇİN BÜTÜNSEL VE SANATSAL BİR OYUN ALANI

Felsefe, psikoloji ve dışarıdaki diğer kendini geliştirme yöntemlerinin bir meraklısı olarak , kendime yaptığım tüm yatırımlar

beni çok ileriye değil, çok geriye götürdü - kendime, özüme ve gerçekte kim olduğuma geri döndürdü.

"Belki de yolculuk o kadar da önemli değildir

herhangi bir şeye dönüşmek. Belki de bu

Gerçekten sen olmayan her şeyin olmaması ,

böylece olman gereken kişi olabilirsin

ilk etapta.”

― Paulo Coelho

Eğer yollarımız şu anda kesişiyorsa, bunun bizi yakışıksız bir yolculuğa götüreceğini bilin ; kendimizin şu ya da bu versiyonu ya da bana ilham veren kişi olma yolculuğumuza değil.

Biliyor musun, neden?

Çünkü içimizde geliştirilmeyi, iyileştirilmeyi bekleyen hiçbir şey yok.

Çünkü sahip olmayı veya olmayı arzuladığınız her şey zaten içinizdedir . Aksi takdirde, bunu başkalarında fark edemezsiniz. Kulağa nasıl geliyor ?

Zaten içinizde olan ( yani içinizde barındırdığınız tüm olasılıklar ) ancak yakışmazlık yolculuğunda ortaya çıkabilir .

Nasıl?

Tanıştığıma memnun oldum, ben Ecem

Bu yolculuğunuzda size eşlik eden kişi olarak
Derinliklerinizi keşfederken, işte değerlerim:

Serbest bırakmak

Hatırlamak

Keşfetmek

Yansıtmak

Kucakla ve Bedenle

Potansiyelimizi ne yapacağımızı veya onu daha iyi nasıl kullanacağımızı bize söyleyecek kimseye ihtiyacımız yok .

Savunmasız ve savunmasız bir durumda olduğumuzda
Her şeyi kabul eden bir alan sayesinde , içimizde tuttuklarımızı duyabiliyoruz -- bu, herhangi bir kişisel gelişim yönteminin sahip olabileceği gerçek güç ve değerdir .

This space is not about me -- my advices, wisdom, truths or thoughts.

This space is all about YOU.

I think we've had enough advices telling us what to do and how to do it. We've read many self-help books, attended many courses and asked for many people's opinions.

Now, I think we, as intuitive beings, need to listen to ourselves.

"What has all the external voices created in me?"

This is what this journey is about.

This is why, we're here not to become something or someone but

to un-become who we think we are.

sana bir ayna tutmak
- nazikçe ve nazikçe - sizi oturmaya ve kendinizi görmeye davet etmek için
sizi becerikliliğinize geri davet etmek için
Sizi tam olarak dinlemek ( size ne tavsiyede bulunacağımı veya ne cevap vereceğimi düşünmeden ) ve hepinizi görmek
Kendinizi derinleştirme ve anlama yolculuğunuzda yoldaşınız olmak
Yolculuğu sizin için en uygun şekilde kişiselleştirmek
Hayatınızı benzersiz felsefenize dayalı olarak yaratmak için bilinçli adımlar atmanız konusunda sizi nazikçe teşvik etmek

IMG_2509_düzenlendi_düzenlendi_düzenlendi.png

size tavsiyelerde bulunmak ve sizin için yol göstermek
Bağlantıyı zorlamak ve birlikte çalışmamızı sağlamak için
sizin için yazılı ve kalıplanmış bir program ve çizelge ile çalışmak
' Kendini geliştirme ' veya hedefleriniz için koçluk yapmak

Kimsenin buna ihtiyacı olduğuna inanmıyorum

kendini geliştirme veya iyileştirme.

Çünkü kendini geliştirme şunu varsayar:

Bugün olduğumuz kişi ve şey olarak bir şeylerden eksiğiz ve tamamlanmış ve bütün olabilmek için daha fazla gelişmeye ihtiyacımız var.

Bu yolculuğa sizinle çıkmamızın sebebi geçmişinizi anlamak veya size bir gelecek inşa etmek değil.
Bunların ötesindedir.

Ne Burada sizinle yaptığımız şey, şu anı keşfetmeniz ve o anın sizin için ne ifade ettiğini görmenizdir .

Ya zaten

bütün , eksiksiz ve becerikli mi ?

İçinde bulunduğumuz an, geleceğin bile barındıramayacağı tüm olasılıkları barındırıyor.

Bu andaki algılarımızı anlayarak, geçmişimize takılıp kaldığımız döngüleri aydınlatırken aynı zamanda geleceği kendimiz için yaratmış olacağız .

Ama her şey, bilinçli bir şekilde oturup kendimizi açmamızla ve mevcut versiyonumuzu, algılarımızı ve duygularımızı anlamaya ve hatta anlamanın ötesine geçmemizle başlar.

Hizmetler

yani birlikte yaratmanın yolları

Akışbilim Çemberleri

Suyunuzu karıştırarak içinizde tuttuğunuzu çıkarın

— bu savunmasız, güçlendirici 1:1 yaratım alanıdır. İçinizde olanı çıkarırız ve sizi bu kişisel oyun alanında onlarla oynamaya ve daha fazla yaratmaya davet ederiz.

Ruh kabilenizle yürekten bir bağ

— bu çemberleri tanımlamanın en iyi yolu bu .

Bunlar, aynı frekansta olan bir avuç insan için kutsal ve güvenli alanlardır ve sonuç olarak bir araya gelip bu savunmasız ve güçlendirici durumu besleyebilmektedirler .

çevrimiçi toplantılar.

Flowsophy Çemberleri hakkında daha fazla bilgi...

1:1 Felsefe Koçluğu

Being seen by myself and therefore by others or sometimes by others and therefore by myself is what keeps cultivating the safety within me. And from that safety worlds are created, creations are made and my truth leads the way.

It requires playfulness to be on the lookout for the ways to unite those three (and beyond) forces within us. Some days it comes easy, some days you need a recipe of how you did it the other day. Sometimes the inside is too loud and sometimes it’s dead silent. No matter what’s the way, there is no THE way.

I used to force my words trying to drip my thoughts into a digestible format thinking that my creations only exist in my mind.

I used to wait till my feelings take over my pen thinking that my heart had to lead my creations.

I used to search for comfort in my body was the help of expression and invisibility feeling safe.

I write from the openness of my body, the contractions of my feelings and the contradictions of my thoughts. I write from the unity of them even though they all point out to the different directions.

And here I am playing with different mediums to simmer my mind, heart and body to make them drip out of my cracks.

I used to apologize for my depths. I used to dilute myself with trying to fit in. Now I embrace the excavation of those depths in the presence of others. Now I surround myself with spaces that and people who dare to take the journey with me.

My work is for the horseflies — the chain-breakers.

I’m here because of selfish reasons. What’s personal is universal anyway. My work exists because the person I’m today and the spaces I hold are exactly what my 12-year-old self would have felt safe with.

I’m becoming someone who creates from the messy middle, who doesn’t wait for life to stop or the chaos to calm down to create the expressions and manifestations of her depths and psyche.

I’m not “there yet”. And I hope I’ll never be.

Welcome to the journey.

When there’re a lot of feelings, creation feels fuzzy and scattered.

At those times, sometimes my water is still yet muddy; sometimes it’s restless yet inviting; other times crispy and fresh as a mountain spring.

Nowadays my water is restless caused by a deep yearning. At those times, I don’t bother connecting the dots between creations, echoes and whatever stirs it. Because stirring hits home deep enough.

So here is the Scattered Echoes and Creations that stirred my water, flowed through me and mirrored back at me.

The thinking virus that our societies have have made us beings who try to find their way through thinking. And that created a further ailment in time which is a dependency on consumption of wisdom, learning and understanding.   More understanding and more wiseness could have freed us but it didn’t because embodiment part didn’t accompany all that learning.

Integration and embodiment are one of the most powerful parts of life coaching. Coaching necessitates and invites the person to take an action. It deepens the cultivated awareness with a solid action.  That’s why life coaching ensures and enables forward momentum. We always aim for deeper yet forward in coaching; not only deeper and deeper.

Reflection questions: 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙢 𝙄 𝙖𝙫𝙤𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚? 𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙢 𝙄 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙩𝙥𝙤𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙤𝙙𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩?

𝞅🎨

How often do you catch yourself referring to how busy you are?

I’m saying this with a lot of compassion: Being busy is not a badge of honor

We don’t get to create our lives by doing more. We create ourselves and therefore our lives by being more.

Also, what does busy mean and look like for you? How can you be busier with being, instead of doing?

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#busy #presence

I was numbing myself with doing, therefore I was escaping being.

This was one of my biggest realizations from the silence retreat I was at last week.

In this phase in my life, I crave less doing and more being. I want to experience the joy, ease and flow coming with purely being.

I’m recognizing sense of the urgency and FOMO my mind trying to create. I’m accepting it but I’m choosing not to follow it.

Less doing, more being Less chasing, more creating

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#vipassana #silentretreat #retreat #being

This mindset of first recognizing the success is something I’ve cultivated in myself, too, thanks to my practice as a coach and a regular coaching client.

I still have my own coach, and they’ve helped me see a profound shift in my language—from judging to nurturing. Coaching has rewired my brain to focus on what’s already there, not what’s lacking.

It’s about recognizing the cup you already have and being grateful for it, before deciding how to fill it.

—see part 1 for a tangible client case of recognizing that cup!

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Coaching rewires your brain to see the positive.

As coaches, we see feedback and therefore success where a client only sees failure. And we lead clients to recognize them.

And in the long run, clients cultivate the growth mindset of recognizing and extracting the positive in every situation.

🎈Now you tell me—what’s an area or recent experience in your life where you feel like you’ve “failed”?

~~share it with me in the comments (holding the space for others to further share) or on dms @innerdialogueswithecem
I’d like to support you to recognize and extract the stepping stone in it!

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“When I fall, I’ll be held by hundreds of people.”

This was the exact sentence I said it out loud on a coaching session last night.

I was amazed by the trust I cultivated over the last years.

And that wasn’t just trust. It was also the mirroring of the self-love that was cultivated.

Loving myself means surrounding myself with who loves me and support me deeply.

Loving myself means letting go of people who no longer supports and loves me in the ways I want to be loved and supported.

The people around me are reflections of how much I love and respect myself.

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Lately, life is asking me to expand my containers.

It’s offering me opportunities shaped as challenges, excitements as birth pangs, conversations as echoes of what’s waiting for me in the future.

These times are asking me to behave differently. My previous self, loaded with her past conditionings, would start hustling: would work more, trying to pave the way through thinking and thinking, hustle more…

But I’m no longer 𝘑𝘶𝘴𝘵 her. She’s a part of me. I see her and I kindly choose not to let her lead the way.

My current self is aware that creations are born from spacious capacity.

𝘖𝘯𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸, 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮, 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘸; 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮.

I’m holding conversations with my coaches, mentors and people who are inviting me to expand my current reality. And as I’m being invited to do so, I do what I have to do and then, step back.

𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘱 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦

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IG LIVE: Coaching Supervision w/ @lifeisbeautiful.me

It was such a lovely and raw chat we had about supervision. As Julie’s supervisee, I shared my tangible and personal experiences with supervision — and a little bit of excitement for my own journey of becoming a supervision in the near future 🤭

Here are some things we covered in the call:

✨What even is coaching supervision?
✨How can it support us in our coaching practices?
✨As a supervisee to Julie, I shared many personal experiences about what transformations coaching supervision created in my practice
✨Misconceptions about supervision (e.g. “I need to have many clients to get into supervision”, “I need to be thinking about AC accreditation”...)
✨Worries around starting supervision
✨Group supervision vs. 1:1 supervision
✨Julie’s approach in supervision

When we constantly seek to have a perfect moment to live and a better version of ourselves, we neglect our current version(s).

Because sitting with our current self(ves) requires confrontation.

And confrontation requires capacity.

So, how much space you have in your capacity?

This is what determines how you and when you seek the “perfect moment” to live your biggest and fullest self.

What are the tabs that are open in the background of your life which occupies space in your capacity?

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Not every time we turn on music and dance our hearts out, right?

And yes it’s not the case for the wrap-up of every coaching journey either. But some “finish lines” do call for that.

Over the last four and a half months, we've been on a wonderful journey with two flowsopher women. They committed to creating space to hold more of themselves and welcome new possibilities.

🐚🐚🐚

Flowsophy Circles Vol.1: Creating Space in Your Life, Not Doing Too Much: Finding Depth in Doing Less

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One let go of wearing black, embracing vibrant colors as a manifesto of allowing every color of herself. The other stopped trying to know how to be happy, instead trusting life and loving all parts of herself, finding what lies beyond happiness—a true surrendering into being a receiver, instead of a chaser.

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One stopped apologizing constantly, becoming unapologetically herself. The other confronted the very person she once called the authority of her life, understanding she was her own sole authority.

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One started pole dancing after years of self-judgment of her body, while another found the courage to tap into a lifelong dream, her heart bursting with alignment.

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Both of them have tapped into their feminine power — in a world full of masculinized women who have lost touch with their divinity.

They excavated inner power coming from ease, surrendering, playfulness, courage to look inside, open-heartedness to hold themselves, and lightheartedness to flow with everything.

They have created an expression of their deeper parts because this time there was enough space for them to hear the echoes of their depths.

When they stopped trying to do more to be more, they started to be more and therefore experienced doing less with more of their soul in it.

And yes, all of this and beyond can happen within a short amount of time — it’s the illusion we created for ourselves that inner work and transformation should take years. It can, but it wouldn’t be the case when we operate from our level of consciousness with an open capacity.

Now it’s your turn.
🏛Invitations are open for the Flowsophy Circles Vol.2 — you know where to find it!

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The value isn’t in doing. It’s in how much we can hold.

hold…
𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘴
𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘵𝘩
𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴
𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴
𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴
𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘺
𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯
𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦
𝘦𝘮𝘱𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴

How much can you hold yourself — with all your feelings and all the possibilities you can ever be?

That’s where the real work lies.

When we don’t do that, self-abandoning starts.

Then, trying to control everything and everyone is added into the equation.

How much space you have in your capacity?

That’s the productivity we should talk about.

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Silent passions…

What are those things you know deep down you’re ready to welcome... but you haven’t quite given yourself permission to embrace that version of you who’s already doing it?

🥖Bread making and sourdough were definitely one of those things for me. 
Share your silent passions in the comments! Make me your company in that journey for you!

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#passion #sourdough #dreams #ready #goals

This is what happens when your craft gets composed in your nature.

You live from alignment.
Embodying your truths becomes less effortless to carry and act for.
Action comes as a flow state.
Your intuition starts to lead the way.
You start to create your life momentarily by intuitively replying to it.
What you do and how you live starts to reflect who you really are.

You carry your own environment and shift the rooms you’re in without saying a word.

All of this and beyond happens because…

…your truths have turned into a state of being, rather than a state of doing.

𝘏𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘷𝘴. 𝘩𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨

Which one are you?

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I am a coach because I coach.

Not because I got certified as a coach.
Not because I’ve worked with many clients.
Not because I’ve created changes in people’s lives.
No. I am a coach because I coach in every conversation I hold. Because coaching is a mindset and a skillset more than it is a business, label or method.

It is the way for me to extract what people hold within their endless potential.

Coaching becomes a state of being.
Coaching becomes second nature.
Coaching becomes a way to carry ourselves in this world.
Coaching gets composed in our nature.

𝘖𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘪𝘧 𝘸𝘦 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘪𝘵.

#coaching #lifecoach #philosophycoach

The Inner Library #4 - 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘗𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘮 𝘰𝘧 𝘚𝘦𝘭𝘧

We contain multitudes, and not every creation needs to reflect them all. My own creative process was often tangled in the desire to capture every part of myself into each piece of creation I made — feeling the pressure to be a complete representation in every single output.

But what if, like a prism scattering light into a spectrum, our inner world expresses itself in diverse shades in every creation?

Each moment, a different refraction.
Each creation, a unique shade of me.

So...

If your current creation is just one color in your personal prism, what other hues within you are longing for their own expression?

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#prism #art #introspection #philosophy #rickrubin #thecreativeact #creativity #book #innerlibrary #identity #multipassionate

I quit yoga after practicing it for 7+ years.

And it massively impacted my coaching practice and the changes I created in my clients.

Because it was all about reclaiming own intuitive authority instead of taking what my teachers said as a rulebook for my life.

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#yoga #authority #selfauthority #teacher #mentor #rule #intuition

“Ooh, what’s that?”
“I wonder what would happen if…”
“Why is that like that?”
“What if I tried this?”
“For some reason, I feel called to this.”
“Is it possible that…?”
“Huh, that’s interesting.”
“What’s that all about?”
“No expectations, just curious.”

When was the last time you said one of these sentences or acted with this motive?

And what has all of this curious investigating has to do with self-authority?

Let’s retap into the path of our curiosity to cultivate our own authority.

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Lastly, there is another important shift that needs to happen in understanding and exercising own self-authority and that’s the shift from the drama triangle to empowerment dynamic, from being a victim to being a creator.

This is the breaking point for many of my clients in regaining their intuitive authority.

Let’s keep talking about it next week!

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#selfauthority #authority #mindset #curiosity #curious #higherself #potential #intuition #calling

That feeling of “I should be...” — what’s one thing that comes to mind right now?

And what’s the outcome you believe that should will bring?

Where did you first learn that this “should” is the path to that outcome?

This is what we’re discovering in Part 2 of Self-Authority video.

If you missed yesterday’s video, you’re more than invited to watch to question why we might keep fighting with authorities and what does this reveal us about our own self-authority.

🫸The sense of responsibility and curiosity are the forces determining the power of self-authority. And a strong sense of responsibility is the tricky one here 🫷

We’ll keep discovering the second force, curiosity, tomorrow.

Meanwhile get curious…about curiosity.

🔅How does acting from curiosity versus from should/responsibility feel like?

#selfauthority #responsibility #should #curiosity #mindset

When was the last time you did something for the sake of you enjoyed it — purely, childishly and joyfully?

Why do we keep feeling and seeing an anger toward authoritative figures around us like governments, bosses, parents and religion?

And what does self-authority has to do with all this?

Let’s talk about it.

🔅Share with me your definition of self-authority.

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#selfauthority #authority #goverment #job #anger #action

The Inner Library #3 - 𝘈𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘍𝘶𝘦𝘭

Anger comes with a message.

Anger reveals the areas where you’re stagnant. And it serves merely as fuel to propel you into action within those areas.

𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯’𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.

Where have you felt anger lately?

What is that anger inviting you to see or do?

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#anger #action #book #innerlibrary #juliacameron #artistsway

The Inner Library #2 - 𝘖𝘶𝘵𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘖𝘶𝘳 𝘐𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴

The river of change flowing through us enables us to let go and welcome new parts of ourselves that are in the making every moment and become the receiver of timeless wisdom.

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#yungpueblo #innerlibrary #lighter #book #identity #wisdom

The Inner Library #1 - 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘖𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥

What we have forgotten can be found in what excites our soul: those childlike passions, interests and excitements which feels like homecoming while having their deepest depths…

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#khalilgibran #themadmanhisparablesandpoems #philosophy #book #innerlibrary #remember #interests #passions

This year, I’m committed to integrating more of myself into every aspect of my life, especially my creative expressions. So, here I am, taking a step towards that.

One of the biggest parts of me is my deep love and passion for books. I cherish them immensely (maybe a little too much, haha).

And if there’s anything I love as much as reading, it’s the conversations I have with the lines on those pages – yes, conversations…

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With everything we read, we have an internal dialogue.

Some we continue passionately (and even aggressively!), some we carry with us to the dinner table or a coffee chat with a dear friend, but most we hold subconsciously.

I won’t minimize myself; I’ll say it boldly: I’m really good at reading between the lines – of a book, a person, a situation, an environment (which significantly contributes to what I do as a coach).

Books are my constant companions — they come with me to everywhere.

I’ve always been a person who is too much — many big feelings, huge ideals, abstract thinking and deep contemplations.

And I needed a friend to share them with. Most often, that friend was found in pages – a book, a notebook, or my journal.

Books have deepened my understanding of myself, the world and the cosmic connections I make in my mind and heart.

So here I am, sharing them with you — hoping they become companions on your own life journeys.

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𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗜𝗡𝗡𝗘𝗥 𝗟𝗜𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗥𝗬
𝘞𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥, 𝘸𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘨𝘶𝘦.

**And who knows, maybe all of this will turn into a book club one day 🤭 — just to make little middle school Ecem’s dreams come true…

Follow along and let’s turn the page together…
@innerdialogueswithecem

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#book #bookaholic #booknerd #philosophycoach #innerlibrary #reading

POV: you’ve always been the odd one out — the one who mostly swam against the tide

POV: your heart had crazy dreams and your mind had big contemplations

POV: people told you that you’re acting crazy and throwing away “big” opportunities

But you had a “bad habit” of not being able to fit yourself in wherever your heart felt heavy.

Anyone else who feels me and has this “bad habit”?

(The Fallacy of) Thinking Through Everything

Do we really “solve” our “problems” by thinking through them?
Or can it be the way we avoid truly being in our lives?

Thinking is a tool of human mind for cultivating and harvesting our inner wisdom - a bridge to embodying that understanding into our actions.

Here comes the fallacy: Thinking, which should be a means, has become an end.

It took me a while to get comfortable with the fact that I’m not the best coach for everyone.

There is no point in forcing connection (as if that were even possible) and no point in minimizing myself to work with others.

When I work with “my people”, they feel both enriched and more attuned to their own truths, as they become more able to hold more opposites within themselves.

It’s as if their hearts expand, allowing them to embrace more and become more fully themselves.

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Whether I’m the best coach for you is something we’ll discover together—that’s the purpose of my free discovery calls.

These calls are a chance to explore our potential synergy, get to know each other, for me to understand what you want to create, what’s holding you back, and how I can support you.

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Another opportunity for us to connect is on February 12th. I’ll be hosting a free group coaching session — come and join if you want to tune back into the visions you set for this year 🐚

For everything, send me a DM, let’s chat! @innerdialogueswithecem

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